Just as children do not come with instructions for their raising, there are no instructions for how to deal with the grief that consumes us when we lose one. How can one survive the crippling effects of this tragedy? The enormity of that tragedy is compounded when more than one child is unexpectedly lost. As you read my story of the loss of two of my three children, I hope this survivor’s perspective will help to shed light on a very complex and personally unique emotion and serve as an inspiration for others experiencing the same grief. 

With belief in God, the love of family, support of friends, compassion from strangers, and the passage of time, it truly is possible to overcome the debilitating effects of grief. 

“Coping with Grief” is now available worldwide at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Books-A-Million. You may order from Amazon by clicking the purchase button below.

“I am Katlyn’s sister (suicide victim), and I just want to say thank you so much for this book! It really means a lot to me and my mom. It explains everything. The way we feel and all. Losing my sister was the hardest thing I’ve had to go through. It seriously helps so much to read words from someone who actually understands what you’re going through. This is an awesome book!” Nikki D. – Survivor  

“I have to tell you, your book was amazing. I liked your writing style, taking one through your tragedies, how you faced them, and how you have learned (learning) how to move forward. Your personal pain was felt, and realizing how hard it is to keep going was real. The last stage of the book gave one hope. You have taken your losses and helped others with and without knowing it. The impact hits one hard, and the inner strength you have had to find is admirable.” Laura T. 

“This book will assure some that the feelings they are experiencing are not unusual. Yet, others will realize no matter how bad their situation was or is, there is always someone who has suffered and endured even more. Anyone in our fraternity will certainly find comfort in reading your words and offer up prayers to their God not only for you, but for others who have/are experiencing similar situations.” Tim M. – Survivor  

“Chief Rick, so much of what you shared is healing and hopeful and talks about the best of human nature in the caring shown by others. There can be no doubt it will bless many people. You are a very strong person with a lion’s heart. You have written a wonderful book!” Diana M. 

“I had the pleasure of meeting Chief Rick Larnerd during the 2019 Police Unity Tour and spent a great deal of time discussing his experiences and dealing with grief. As a 29-year law enforcement professional and a college professor, this book is a must-read. Chief Larnerd’s words place a real value on what is important in life.” Professor James “Chip” R., EdD